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Easy Premature Ejaculation Solutions

Enjoy Deeply Satisfying Sex That Lasts As Long As You Want!

Ready to work your Imagination?… You went on a date, charmed a girl off her feet and got her to the bed. But as soon as your seemingly perfect lovemaking goes into full swing, it ended just as abruptly. Premature ejaculation. This is the bane of men which fizzles out the excitement in sex just as the lady is getting into the mood. Sounds like what is happening to you on a regular basis? Well, you are not the only one facing this. Millions of other guys are just like you, so it is not your fault at all.

What causes premature ejaculation?

Premature ejaculation, or PE, is often defined as a guy reaching a climax within 2 minutes of intercourse. Almost 40 percent of men suffer from this sexual condition which can be caused by a number of factors, but these are the two more common ones you will come across:

#1 – Habits learned from young: From their teenage years, guys masturbate with the aim of reaching a climax as soon as possible. This habitual routine becomes difficult to “unlearn” as the years go by and unfortunately creeps up in actual sexual encounters.

#2 – Stress and anxiety: Our human bodies always find a way to release tension when we are stressed up, and quick ejaculation is a default mechanism through which stress is released. When it comes to sex-related performance anxiety, this can become a self-fulfilling prophecy: The more anxious you are with your performance in bed, the more difficult it becomes in lasting long enough. It becomes a vicious cycle.

Solutions for treating premature ejaculation

So how can you gain better control over your ejaculation and enjoy deeply satisfying sex that lasts as long as you want? Well, here are two easy solutions you should try out.

#1 – Re-program your response: You can make a conscious effort to slow down your ejaculatory response. For instance, if you habitually build up to a climax quickly during masturbation, try bringing yourself close to the peak and then slow down or even stop your stimulation. Once the sensation subsides, then resume the stimulation again. Continue with the practice until you achieve better control over time.

#2 – “Stop and go“: Your pc muscle is key to your ejaculatory functions, including urination. By strengthening this muscle by repeatedly tensing and relaxing it for 5 to 10 seconds each time, you can achieve superior control over this muscle and your ejaculation as well.

There are plenty of other ejaculatory control techniques you can try out, including the squeeze technique, scrotum-pull or even the use of desensitization creams/sprays. The best approach is to try out a myriad of them and find a few that are most effective for you.

Lloyd Lester is the creator of “Ejaculation By Command”, which is a complete, step-by-step blueprint to help men permanently end premature ejaculation and last longer in bed. Learn how you can develop superior sexual endurance and enjoy transformative sex by visiting his website. Let’s get you on the road to fixing your Premature Ejaculation!

Also, you should read our other article Can You Stop Premature Ejaculation?

3 Sex Positions to Make You Last Longer in Bed

Premature Ejaculation Can Be Permanently Beaten With These Tips!

Chances are if you ask any man what the most important thing he would like to achieve during sex, he answer that he wants to last longer in bed. And why not? Being able to last a long time without ejaculating will result in more satisfying sex for both the man and his partner. So how can you prevent premature ejaculation and enjoy sex to the fullest, without spraying yourself with products that claim to make you last longer, or popping pills that promise to keep you going for hours? Well, one proven technique to last longer in bed is to vary your sex positions.

If you don’t already know, there are some positions that tend to make a man climax more rapidly, while others allow the passion to heat up on a slow-burner and keep you going longer. Let’s take a quick look at 3 sure shot positions that will help you achieve better endurance in bed.

Sex position #1 – Missionary with a twist

Regular missionary position is often the bane of guys who climax too soon due to the greater amounts of friction (and hence stimulation) this position provides. But here’s the trick. When you sense you’re going to peak, withdraw your penis from her vagina and hold it. Only when your sensations subside do you resume penetration again. You may not succeed on your first attempt, but with enough practice, this holding technique works pretty well for guys who ejaculate too soon.

Sex position #2 – Sitting inside each other

This is what you do. Sit down with your legs crossed while your girl sits on top of you with her legs straddling your hips. This position is great because you can focus on stimulating her body such as her back or breasts and take your focus away from the act of penetration which she is controlling.

Sex position #3 – Front-to-back

This calls for rear penetration. Let her lie down on her side facing slightly downwards, then lift up one of her legs from behind and penetrate her. You may feel a little tightness in her vagina in this position, but once she is warmed up to the act, it becomes more pleasurable. Many guys reported better staying power with this position.

Experiment with different positions until you discover a few that give both of you pleasure and help you last longer in the sack at the same time. Here’s the key. One of the surest way to ejaculate too fast is to start thrusting right out of the gate and getting yourself too excited. So start slow and keep the tempo steady. She will soon be impressed with what you are doing to last longer and pleasure her.

Read our other article for some other tips to help you last longer in bed.

Lloyd Lester is the creator of “Ejaculation By Command”, which is a complete, step-by-step blueprint to help men permanently end premature ejaculation and last longer in bed. Learn how you can develop superior sexual endurance and enjoy transformative sex by visiting his website. You do want to Last Longer in Bed, don’t you?

Permanently End Your Premature Ejaculation Woes

Unlock the Secrets to Lasting Longer in Bed and End Premature Ejaculation!

Let’s face facts, even though many will deny it, every man will experience premature ejaculation once in a while, or at least in the beginning of their sex life. For as long as mankind has been around, being able to last long enough in bed is ONE coveted pursuit that almost every guy on earth wants to achieve, to not only make himself a better lover but to also make those great sex sensations last. But sadly, only a handful really achieve that incredible staying power that seemingly lasts for hours on end.

But there is no need to feel embarrassed about it if you can’t even go beyond that minute mark. It’s not your fault. It is Mother Nature’s ingenious way for men to procreate or reproduce as efficiently as possible. But are there ways to beat nature at its own game and enjoy sex to the fullest without the disappointing urge to ejaculate too early? There sure are! Let’s take a quick look below.

Short-term solutions to premature ejaculation

Men’s single-minded pursuit to beat their ejaculation woes have opened up the market to products that claim to help you last longer in bed. But most of these can only be branded as short-term cures instead of permanent preventive measures. Short-term solutions aside, I bet it is surely an embarrassment of sorts if you need to pull out that tube of anti-ejaculation cream or that bottle of spray in front of your partner in your attempt to last longer.

Permanent solution to keep premature ejaculation at bay

Sure, those short-term fixes like sprays, creams or even thicker condoms may come in handy if you need to boost your staying power at a moment’s notice. But if you truly want to eradicate your premature ejaculation woes permanently, the best approach will be to first understand why you are climaxing too soon. For most guys, these are the common problems:

  1.  Excessive masturbation that results in super fast response (often one minute or less)
  2. Lack of understanding of the male ejaculatory process
  3. Overly sensitive bodies

Well, the great thing is that, all these shortcomings can be easily overcome with simple, natural techniques that help to re-wire your mental or psychological reflexes during sex. By developing superior mental control (such as focusing on delivering pleasure to your partner, or controlling your breathing patterns) and physical endurance (for example, through specific pelvic exercises), you can see dramatic improvements in your staying power. It won’t happen immediately, but with some effort, it is not unusual to see real improvements within 2 to 3 days.

To find out more on how to end your premature ejaculation problems just click the link.

2 Surefire Techniques For Guys Who Wish to Last 10 Minutes Longer in Bed

Are you struggling with your performance in bed? More specifically, is your inability to last long enough for your partner making you feel anxious about sex? If so, this article is for you. In just about every study done on men’s sexuality, more than three quarters of men wished they had greater staying power. Premature ejaculation is a recurring problem that haunts many guys who just can’t hold out long enough to bring their women to an orgasm. Sadly, many sexual relations are put on the rocks simply because many men are unable to let their partners experience sex to the fullest.

But the simple truth is also that anyone can learn to put the brakes on premature ejaculation with some easy techniques that focus on gaining control over your mental and physical ability during sex. You don’t need to be a porn star to know all the tools in the trade in order to extend your staying power. The two tips below will give you a great head start in boosting your threshold and give you the confidence in bed you know you deserve. Read this now if you want to learn how to last an extra 10 minutes in bed.

#1 – Achieve lasting endurance through Kegel exercises

Kegel exercise is not just for women. When practiced properly, it is a very powerful technique for men to vastly improve their time to ejaculation. Kegels are practiced to strengthen the pc muscle that is located in the pelvic wall. This is the muscle that controls both the flow of urine and ejaculation during sex. To perform this exercise, all you need is to squeeze or tense this muscle, hold it for 10 to 15 seconds, and then release the tension. Practice this for 5 minutes a day. Within a week, you should notice a significant improvement in your ejaculation time. The great thing about kegel is that you can practice this simple exercise anytime, anytime, in any position (sitting, standing, and even lying down) without anyone knowing.

#2 – “The route of least resistance”

One of the reasons why some men ejaculate too soon is because they move too fast too soon, and in positions that cause the greatest amount of friction (or “resistance”) during intercourse. If there is one trick to prolong your orgasm, it is simply to SLOW DOWN. This gives you some breathing space, maintain a steady momentum and let you and her experience sex in its entire splendor rather than letting the sensations rule over your head. Also, as the head of your penis is most sensitive to stimulation, you have to find positions that allow deeper penetrations – the deeper you go, the less friction and consequently the less stimulation you will experience.
Lloyd Lester is the creator of “Ejaculation By Command”, a complete, step-by-step blueprint to help men permanently end premature ejaculation and last longer in bed. Learn how you can develop superior sexual endurance and enjoy transformative sex by clicking the link above.

Here’s How You Delay Premature Ejaculation and Enjoy Sizzling Hot Nights of Lovemaking!

What does it take to last 10 minutes or longer in bed? Well, if you’re anything like most of the men reading this, lasting that long might seem like a herculean task, or even an impossible thing to do. After all, premature ejaculation is a dreaded problem that many men face in the bedroom. There are a good number of men who don’t even hold out for more than 2 minutes. But did you know that women need an average of 10 to 15 minutes to properly get aroused and reach an orgasm? So even if you can last 10 minutes, you are barely scratching the surface of fulfilling your partner sexually!

But not all is lost. As premature ejaculation has a lot to do with your mental ejaculatory reflexes, it means with the right techniques and approaches, you can easily fix your mental game and mindset.

Does it mean thinking about sports or other non-sexual thoughts can help me last longer?

Well, some guys swear that this works. To some extent, it does, because any form of distraction tactic can pull your mind away from sex momentarily and put your arousal in check. But here’s the thing. Do you really want to be thinking about something else when sex is something you and your partner should be experiencing wholeheartedly? I think not!

What about other artificial means of prolonging ejaculation?

If you’re talking about creams or sprays to last longer, well, it’s the same thing. You’re dulling those pleasurable sensations during sex. Of course some of these can help you go a little longer. But not just you, your partner will experience reduced sensitivity in her vagina too.

So what is the best way to “ride the waves of arousal” and last as long as she does?

There are a number of things you can do, such as masturbating before your sexual encounters, using thicker condoms or using greater amounts of lubrication. But these are not long-term cures to your early ejaculation problem. If you want to endure long-lasting hard stimulation and last as long as she does, you have to first learn why you are ejaculating early. Only then can you systemically fix these issues permanently by using proven natural training and conditioning techniques to boost your staying power.

Natural techniques that focus on fixing your mental triggers and exercises that strengthen your perinea muscles can keep the triggers of premature ejaculation at bay and give you that added confidence in bed!

Lloyd Lester is the creator of “Ejaculation By Command”, a complete, step-by-step blueprint to help men permanently end premature ejaculation and last longer in bed. Learn how you can develop superior sexual endurance and enjoy transformative sex by visiting Ejaculation By Command right now.